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How do you know when the division of labor needs to be adjusted?

I got a lot of questions on my last post, specifically: how do you know when things aren’t fair and need to be adjusted?

Are 50-50 marriages exactly 50-50?

One of my friends and I were recently discussing what success in a 50-50 partnership looks like. Does it mean that each person does exactly 50% of household work at all times?

50-50 marriage, Relationship Advice, The Mental LoadAnusha DeshpandeMay 24, 202050-50 marriage, mental loadComment

How do you make sure to incorporate your partner’s perspective, even if it’s your “domain”?

I’ve gotten a lot of questions about how dividing up tasks using “domains” works in practice. Specifically, what happens when something is in one partner’s domain, but the other person has a strong point-of-view?